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    April 07

    分開不等於分手

    他們年紀相若,外型匹配,優點相近,缺點相同;人生態度一樣,積極進取;理想不同,但追求方向一致;有甜蜜溫馨,亦有據理力爭,與及無理取鬧的時侯:他們勇於嘗試各種刺激, 但又偶爾會冷靜地討論分折現實要面對的難題,如此相親相襯相愛的一對,絕對列入「打風都打唔甩」級別,但歷史告訴,這個級別的情侶,大多都分手收場!他們最後都不例外,但分開的原因並不是因第三者,又不是不愛對方,總之感覺不再像從前,或許是想法開始不同,生活風格有變,追求的目標令大家出現距離.... 砌詞狡辯,其實說到尾都是因為一個字「悶」!相處悶了,交談悶了,但又不敢坦言告之對方,怕傷了對方自尊,於是潛意識要發掘對方的問題,來強化提出分開的理由及勇氣,然後開始把對方的優點變成必然,缺點就無限放大!但始終是雞旦裡挑骨頭,小問題無限放大,亦難免會有點心虛,所以希望用內疚感來救贖自己,但越救越內疚,情緒越來越紊亂,事情越搞越覆雜!
    早知今日,又何必當初,有時一段感情關係分好多個階段,某一個階段要完結,就讓它安樂死吧!抖一抖,在下一個階段再開始過,變成「情人」、「伴侶」、「知己」、「朋友」.... 就算是變成「敵人」亦無問題,只要還是「一對」,就代表大家又走在一起,能夠一起是難得的福氣!所以若果你對目前的關係感到「悶」,大膽提出「大家分開一下吧!」,人總是到失去後,才發現失去的東西有幾重要!
    「分開並不等於分手!」
     

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    Jill Chanwrote:
    好有道理~~ :)
    Apr. 8

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